Selflessness?

Upon the realization of there is no "I", or selflessness (being free from egoism), there is no identification with any qualities of names and forms, to be proud of or ashame of, to feel meaningful or meaningless, to be happy or unhappy. There is no fear towards uncertainty, impermanent changes, separation from the things and people whom we love, come in contact with the objects and happenings that our minds believe as "not good", old age, weakness, sickness, death and etc...

Om shanti.