Selflessness?

Upon the realization of there is no "I", or selflessness in all and everything (on top of the absence of the idea of 'I' and egoism in the mind), there is no identification with any qualities of names and forms, to be proud of or ashamed of, to feel meaningful or meaningless, to be happy or unhappy. There is no fear towards uncertainty, impermanent changes, separation from the things and people whom we love, come in contact with the objects and happenings that our minds believe as "not good", old age, weakness, sickness, death, and etc...

Om shanti.