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Sunday, March 30, 2025

Self discipline vs self punishment

Self discipline is not self punishment.

Disciplining the ignorant impure egoistic modification of the mind, by the mind itself, out of freewill, to render it clear, pure, calm, and quiet, is not about inflicting violent hurtful or forceful practice/action/punishment unto the modification of the mind, which doesn't help to render the modification of the mind to be clear, pure, calm, and quiet at all, but would intensify the restless violent impure thought current.

Self discipline in the teachings and practice of yoga and/or buddhism is all about the ability of self management, time management, effort/energy usage or distribution, energy conservation, balancing physical and mental activity, filtering physical and mental inputs and outputs, self restriction and self control to be developing and empowering non-violence or non-hurtful in thoughts, actions, and speech, out of one's own freewill, devoid of violence or harm unto oneself and/or others.

It is nothing to do with what the many minds understand as 'self punishment' or 'disciplining oneself with forceful practice or hurtful action', or 'self inflicts violent and hurtful punishment unto oneself in order to repent' that exists in the many worldly egoistic beliefs in the world.

Many minds have intense aversion or rejection towards the teachings and practice of self discipline in yoga and/or buddhism because they confuse 'self discipline' with 'self punishment' that exists in the many worldly egoistic beliefs, values, and practices, which most minds would have intense disagreement, anger, and disgust towards.

Yoga and/or buddhism is non-religious. It is not a belief or values. It is science. It is biology. It is about the truth of this selfless impermanent limited and conditional momentary life existence of the limited adjuncts of the selfless mortal physical body that comes with a selfless perceptive thinking and acting faculty, that dependent on the selfless support of the selfless energy and elements to be existing and functioning. There is no pride and arrogance, or fear and painful sorrow, can exist in the mind that knows about the truth of Selflessness and Impermanence.

It is about coming from one's own freewill and desire, to be disciplining the selfless impermanent restless modification of the mind, without violence, or judgment, or attachment, or identification, or craving, or aversion, or comparison, or expectation, to be rendering the state of mind clear, pure, calm, and quiet, that unveils the existing knowledge and correct understanding towards the selfless impermanent existence and function of the perceptive cognitive intellectual emotional thinking and acting mind and the selfless impermanent modification of the mind, that are limited and conditional, that is here in this present moment now, perceiving a selfless impermanent limited and conditional momentary worldly life existence, that is subject to the inevitable selfless impermanent changes, of forming, birth, growth, ceased growing, decay, weakening, illness, stiffness, injury, discomfort, old age, malfunction and dysfunction of the selfless bodily systems, and eventually, ceased functioning (death), and disintegrate (decompose).

All these are painful sorrow and suffering, to the minds that don't know Thyself.

All these are merely an inevitable natural process in all and everyone that are selfless, impermanent, limited, and conditional, to the minds that know Thyself.

There is no 'authoritarianism', or 'authority', or 'authorization', in the path of yoga and/or buddhism.

There is no 'judgment' or 'punishment', not to say, 'self punishment' or 'punishment unto others', in the teachings and practice of yoga and/or buddhism.

More importantly, the basic foundation of the teachings and practice of yoga and/or buddhism from the beginning of the practice until 'self-realization towards the truth of Selflessness and Impermanence' happens, is all about non-violence, or the annihilation and absence of violent hurtful thoughts/ideas/desires/actions/reactions/behaviors, via self-initiation, self-control, self-effort, self-reliance, and self-discipline, where all kinds of practices served as the non-violent tools for rendering the modification of the mind to be clear, pure, calm, and quiet, to be free from the veil of ignorance/restless violent impure egoistic thought current, a.k.a. the annihilation of the idea of 'I', egoism, impurities, or restlessness from the modification of the mind, which then allowing the selfless perceptive cognitive intellectual emotional thinking and acting faculty to be able to see/know/realize/have a glimpse towards the truth of itself and the modification of the mind (knowing Thyself) under the presence of clarity a.k.a. the absence of hindrance/the veil of ignorance.

Self discipline is about managing one's physical and mental activities, or the usage of time or energy a.k.a. what to do with one's momentary precious life existence, balancing between activity and inactivity/work and rest/wake and sleep, filtering and choosing the type of physical and mental inputs and outputs, without violence or forcing, but with kindness and understanding towards what is the physical and mental needs/condition/ability/disability/limitation/possibility/impossibility in this present moment now, and attending what is needed to be attended immediately in this present moment now accordingly, accepting and respecting the perceived reality in the present moment now as it is, while knowing that all these are impermanent, and that it will change, and hence, just do one's best on what is possible in the present moment now, without attachment, identification, craving, aversion, comparison, judgment, or expectation, and allowing or respecting the result/fruit/outcome of one's action to be what it is, and changing.

Attending the physical and mental essential needs to be existing and functioning, to maintain life existence, are completely different from gratifying the wants, or the desires of craving and aversion, or the physical/mental/emotional clinging or addiction, or the ambitious ambition.

Without energy, food, water, air, minerals, and nutrients, the body and mind cannot exist or function.

Without a proper shelter and protective layer of clothing, to be sheltering from harsh weather, extreme condition and situation, injury, illness, and predators, without the selfless autonomous bodily systems and components that are there working together non-stop selflessly forming and supporting the life maintenance/existence/function of the body, or without certain survival knowledge and skills, such as balancing activity and inactivity/physical activity and mental activity/work and rest/wake and sleep, neither over-use or under-use, neither over eating or under eating, and etc, as well as the knowledge and understanding of non-violence, non-interference, non-possession, non-hoarding, non-greed, non-discrimination, independence, respect and kindness among one another, that gives rise to a supportive peaceful harmonious environment among the many diversities of different duties, responsibilities, knowledge, talents and skills, that are inter-supporting the survival of one another, just like the different selfless bodily systems and the many different selfless components that make up the entire selfless physical body, that gives life to the body and mind and support the life existence/function/maintenance/survival of the entire body, similar to the entire selfless solar system that is supporting the selfless existence of all and everything in it, then it might be challenging for maintaining the survival of the body and mind.

These are the needs, that is inevitable for maintaining life existence and the proper function of the body and mind, under a supportive, peaceful, and harmonious living environment in the world that doesn't belong to anyone or anything.

Out of ignorance, the idea of 'I', egoism, impurities, and restlessness, there are fighting, hating, bullying, interfering, invading, oppressing, controlling, hurting, attacking, or killing one another in the world that doesn't belong to anyone and anything, is not different from committing suicide, just like the corrupted/malfunctioned auto immune system that attacks the different bodily systems and components.

 

The non-gratification or non-availability of the few/many/boundless different types of wants, or cravings, or physical/mental/emotional clinging or addiction, or the absence of certain desirable/pleasurable/enjoyable physical and mental inputs and outputs, or activities, or experiences, or effects, or enjoyments of the body and mind,

of certain pleasurable, desirable, agreeable, and enjoyable sights, smells, sounds, tastes, sensations, objects, intoxicants, drugs, alcohols, fashions, lifestyles, decorations, symbolical objects, arts, music, fine dining, luxurious indulgence, commercialized leisure holidays and activities, outings, gatherings, events, celebrations, festivals, material possessions, sexual activities, social activities and interactions, ties and connections, friendships, relationships,

of any kind of worldly egoistic belief, values, rituals, and practice, worldly education and learning, academic achievement, proficiency in particular or different languages for communication, praise and compliment, acknowledgement and recognition, love and affection, hugging and touching, agreement and understanding, admiration and glorification, the sense of self-esteem and self-worth, the sense of meaningfulness and purposefulness,

as well as without the idea of 'I', egoism, and impurities of pride, arrogance, greed, anger, hatred, fear, worry, jealousy, bitterness, resentment, selfishness, possessiveness, separateness, discrimination, cruelty, violence, hurtful behavior, and etc, the body and mind can still be existing and functioning as it is under the sufficient supply of energy, food, water, air, minerals, and nutrients, under the support of some basic survival knowledge, tools, and skills, and the availability of a proper shelter and sufficient clothing/wearing to be protected from extreme condition and situation, extreme heat and cold, harsh weather, natural disaster, accident, or predators, to be minimizing unnecessary injury and illness, if possible, without attachment, and devoid of violence or hurtful action/reaction/behavior unto oneself and others or the surrounding environment.

 

The absence and presence of worldly education, worldly knowledge, academic achievement, intelligence, talents, ties and connections, physical and mental good health and fitness condition, or social and financial status and achievement, doesn't determine whether a person or a mind is wise and kind, or not, is free from violence, cruelty, and hurtful thoughts/ideas/desires/actions/reactions/behaviors, or not, and is peaceful, or not.

Similarly, not all yoga and/or buddhism practitioners/teachers, or scientists, or biologists, are free from the influence of ignorance, the idea of 'I', egoism, impurities, and restlessness, if they haven't attained self realization yet, but only gathering all kinds of information/knowledge coming from everywhere and everyone. All these names and forms are neither good nor bad, depending on the presence or absence of correct understanding, that determining whether the availability of all these names and forms are being utilized for something constructive or destructive.

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Monday, March 24, 2025

Non-violence or non-hurtful vs good and evil or right and wrong

Non-violence or non-hurting towards oneself and/or others and the surrounding environment, is the basic foundation of the teachings and practice of yoga and/or buddhism.

What the mind thinks and believes or identifies as good or evil and right or wrong, are not necessarily representing or reflecting the presence or absence of non-violence or non-hurtful.

Under the influence of the many different types of beliefs, values, and practices, different minds have different standard or understanding about what is good or evil, and what is right or wrong.

Out of ignorance, or under the restless disturbed dissatisfied discontented unhappy suffering prideful state of mind, the mind can be generating action/reaction/behavior that is violent and hurtful unto itself and/or others and the surrounding environment that it thinks and believes or identifies as evil and wrong, based on its particular belief, values, and practices about what is good and evil or right and wrong.

It is not about what the mind thinks and believes or identifies as good or evil and right or wrong.

It's about the absence of violent and hurtful ideas, desires, actions, and reactions in the modification of the mind that turn into physical actions or behaviors that are violent and hurtful, that hurt oneself and/or others and the surrounding environment.

All kinds of diverse beliefs, values, and practices, are not necessarily universal. That's why different minds have their own different standard and understanding about what is good or evil and what is right or wrong, and it's not necessarily free from violence and hurtful ideas, desires, actions, and reactions, towards what each and everyone thinks and believes or identifies as evil and wrong, that give rise to the consequences of all that - never ending of violence and hurtful activities and affairs.

The teachings and observation of non-violence or non-hurtful is universal, regardless of what type of belief, values, and practices that all minds have, that leads towards peace and harmony in oneself and among the many diversities, and in the surrounding environment.

Non-violence in thoughts, actions, and speech.

Non-violence in oneself, in the family, in the relationship, in the community, in the surrounding environment, and in the world.

Non-violence can be developed and empowered. But it has to come from the mind itself to be willingly to practice non-violence (freewill - not being forced by others - out of conscious choice, self-control, and self-effort).

Whenever there is a violent hurtful thought/idea/desire arise in the thinking, the mind just need to be aware of it, and not to be over-powered by that thought/idea/desire, and not externalize or turn it into physical action/reaction or behavior that is violent or hurtful, under certain degrees of willpower or self-control, and more importantly, without attachment, identification, craving and aversion, judgment, or expectation.

Not attaching and not identifying with this or any thought/idea/desire as 'I', or 'mine'. All kinds of pure or impure thoughts/ideas/desires are not 'I', and they don't belong to 'I'.

Not judging this violent hurtful or some other impure egoistic thought/idea/desire, or the thinking in the mind, as 'bad', 'evil', 'negative', or 'wrong', and not judging some other kind of thought/idea/desire that the mind believes and identifies as 'good', 'noble', 'positive', or 'right' based on the existing belief and values in the mind, as good, noble, positive, or right.

Non-craving and non-aversion towards the absence or presence of any particular thought/idea/desire.

Not expecting this thought/idea/desire doesn't/shouldn't/won't appear in the modification of the mind, or expecting the thought/idea/desire to disappear immediately or at specific timeline, but allowing the thought/idea/desire to arise, change, and pass away, as it is.

This is non-violence from the mind towards itself and the selfless modification of the mind.

Eventually, any kind of impure egoistic thought/idea/desire will be less intense, and then will pass away in the mind, without turning into physical action/behavior/activity that hurt oneself or others or the surrounding environment, under certain amount of effort or self-restraint/self-discipline/self-control.

Do not confuse the term 'self discipline' with 'self punishment' or 'self inflicting violent hurtful activity unto oneself in order to repent'. That is what most mind interpret and understand the term 'self discipline' under their specific belief, values and practice.

While keep practicing like this without attachment, identification, craving/aversion, judgment, and expectation, and eventually, there will be less and less violent hurtful or any other kind of impure egoistic thought/idea/desire arising in the mind, effortlessly. It takes a lot of patience, forbearance, adjustment, adaptation, accommodation, perseverance, and determination for constructive evolution (changes/to build or remove any kind of habit) to happen.

If someone (the mind) is holding something (thought activities) that is hurtful/undesirable/unpleasant/disagreeable in its hand (the modification of the mind). It might want to damage that thing while holding in its hand, or on a surface somewhere, aggressively, but then itself will be in pain for doing that. That is what most minds are trying to do. Or, it can just let it go. Not hurting itself or the object that is hurtful. That is real and practical practice of non-violence.

There is no 'self punishment' or 'punishment' in the path of yoga and/or buddhism, not to say, 'punished by others' or 'punishing others', or 'to inflict punishment from one unto oneself and the others', out of self-righteousness or anger/hatred/annoyance reacting towards something that the mind thinks/believes/judges/recognizes as bad, evil, and wrong, in accordance to one's particular thinking and belief, values and practice.

It has to come from the mind itself (that is being over-powered by impure egoistic thoughts/ideas/desires and acting/reacting/behaving violently/hurtfully or selfishly/ignorantly) to willingly to come out from such condition (freewill/conscious choice/not being forced by others), to make effort to come out from such condition (self-effort), to stop hurting itself and/or others and the surrounding environment (self-control/self-discipline/self-restraint).

And upon self-realization towards the the truth of itself - Selflessness and Impermanence, of knowing Thyself, under a calm and quiet (non-violent/restless/ignorant) modification of the mind, everything become effortless. There is needless of any self-effort, self-control, self-discipline, self-restraint or practice to restrict or control or remove any impure egoistic thought/idea/desire that doesn't exist upon the annihilation of the idea of 'I', egoism, impurities, and restlessness, upon the selfless mind transcends its own modification of the mind, or not being over-powered by the selfless modification of the mind that is pure or impure, that is impermanent, limited, and conditional, effortlessly.

That's why non-violence or non-hurtful under non-grasping, or non-attachment, or letting go, is the universal practical practice for inner peace and world peace, regardless of what type of belief, values, and practices that the different minds have or don't have.

Meanwhile, letting go, or non-attachment/non-grasping, doesn't mean that one doesn't or shouldn't perform necessary action or existing duty and responsibility to be looking after oneself and/or others and the world.

This is the upmost important knowledge or duty (not a belief or value) that exists in all minds, regardless of what they are, of what they think or don't think, believe or don't believe, know or don't know, understand or don't understand, intelligent or non-intelligent, knowledgeable or non-knowledgeable, educated or non-educated, fit or unfit, healthy or unhealthy, behave or don't behave, can do or cannot do, enjoying or suffering, and so on.

All these are practical and absolutely possible.

"The most violent (disturbed) minds in the world also can attain peace (liberation from ignorance)." - Siddhartha Gautama Buddha

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