This compassionate love is part of us, it is not separated from everyone and everything, it is not something that we gained, or received, or accumulated from outside. It is unlimited and inexhaustible from within. Just like our hands and feet, they are part of our body and are not separated from the body. We don’t need to detach our hands and feet from the body to be free from doing bad actions or going to bad places.
It is the wisdom and compassion in us that allow us to have self-control over our body and our
actions and speech, and not doing anything that will harm ourselves or other
beings. We don’t need to stop doing good when we say “detaching from the
fruit of doing something good”. But it is the inner detachment where there's no expectation or craving towards the fruit of actions has to be in certain way that we think it's good deserving when we do something good, but allowing the fruit of action to be there as it is, even if it's not as good as we would like it to be, which
gives us the true freedom and unlimited love to love ourselves and
others unconditionally, without getting tired or frustrated when everything “goes wrong”
or things are not being the way that we would like it to be.