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Wednesday, December 1, 2010

Humility manifests in those who are truly self-confident... Pride & arrogance manifests in those who are not sure what is true confidence...

The greatest obstacle for us to obtain the highest knowledge (realizing the wisdom in us) is pride and arrogance.

A truly confident person will not have any pride and arrogance but is being humble and yet being very confident about himself or herself and is not looking down on any other beings nor is admiring any other beings. He or she doesn’t depend on any of the qualities that come from all the names and forms to feel confident about himself or herself. This true confident manifests in him or her when he or she knows the truth of himself or herself about who we really are and knows the truth of what is real and unreal.

A truly confident person doesn't need to justify or to prove to himself or herself or to anybody else about anything.

There is no superiority. There is no inferiority. There is no good beings. There is no bad beings. There is no fear, no worry. When attachment or dependency towards all the qualities of names and forms disappears from those who have true confidence, then all judgments, comparisons, competitions and expectations towards other people and towards our own self will also disappear naturally.

All are equal under the presence of wisdom and compassion.

Success and failure have no meanings at all for those who are truly confident. Success and failure only exist in those who are lack of self-confidence and are depending on success or failure to give them "confidence" or to take away their "confidence".

True confidence is always here in us. We will realize it when we know who we really are. That we are not something that determined by "this" or "that". It is not about what we can do or cannot do. It is not about what we can achieve and cannot achieve...

Trying to gain recognition or acknowledgment or approval or agreement from other people or from our own self is a sign that we are lack of true confidence. Longing for praise and compliments, dislike and reject criticism and condemnation is another sign of lack of true confidence. When we get recognition or acknowledgment or approval or agreement from other people and are getting praise and compliments, we will feel good and "confident" about ourselves, and feel proud and arrogant, but when we don't get any recognition or acknowledgment or approval or agreement from other people and are not getting any praise and compliments, we will feel bad and "not confident" about ourselves, and feel low self-esteem. This conditioned "confidence" is not the real confidence.

Learn to let go of craving for praise and compliments. Learn to let go of aversion towards criticism and condemnations. This will develop equanimity in us.

Equanimity brings out true confidence and humility. Humility allows us to continue to evolve and improve without feeling bad or low or guilty about our own self for being imperfect or are not perfected yet.

Om shanti.

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